Trauma and dysfunction are not just the buzzwords for the year, but it is the reality of what most people live with today. Some may not admit it, or they may not recognize the damage they have experienced. I had a horrible marriage, betrayed, abandoned, and even rejected by people I loved dearly. So, I moved 3K miles away to get a better life to leave it all behind for a far better life, But I found myself in the same situations again and again.  Only the places and faces were different. I still did not understand why.

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I have coached and mentored hundreds of men and women in one capacity or another. Giving advice, speaking on healing, and writing about it. Never knowing I needed it myself. (I am NOT a counselor or therapist.) I decided to heal and break the cycles of my past in 2017 when I had been grieving my bonus son’s (he was mine) death, and I was going through some major relationship issues, personally and professionally.